… I just wanna sleep

  • Dorkyd68@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    Drugs hard core prescription sleeping pills. I’m sorry but if you’re as desperate as I was and have tried everything then hard sleeping drugs typically with a benzodiazapine in it

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    11 hours ago

    My (probably not very healthy) hack is to watch YouTube. My brain focuses on one thing and all the thoughts keeping me up just stay quiet.

    If you have persistent sleep problems even after applying all the advice, if you can afford it, consider taking a sleep test/study to learn what’s the core issue

  • HellsBelle@sh.itjust.works
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    10 hours ago

    Previously I used the 4-7-8 method (take a deep breath for a 4-count, hold it for a 7-count, exhale for an 8-count). I did that until I fell asleep.

    Recently I started deep breathing/exhaling (no counting) and it works just as well.

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    13 hours ago

    Imagine a place where you are most cozy and visit it every night when you try to sleep. And then maybe sound machines. And finally, deep breathing. Slowing your heart down through this will physically make your body want to go to sleep (so basically meditiation).

    I do all of these in tandem, I have the sound machine going and I settle into my cozy part of my brain and then imagine my lungs as a cup filling up with water to the top while inhaling and then draining out as I exhale. The trick with this is to not stress yourself thinking about if you’re doing your breathing right, just try and relax and focus.

    Also melatonin. But that isn’t effective for every situation.

    Good luck.

  • MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    First your bed is for sleep and sexy times and nothing else. That way your body is conditioned to go to bed whenever you lay down. Doing other actions in your bed reduces this impulse.

    Second, monitor your stimulant usage which includes tea, soda or coffee. Caffeine impacts your sleep more than many realize.

    Finally stop lolking at screens an hour or so before bed.

  • JTskulk@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    I had sleep issues for years, almost failed high school because of it and then I was late to my own graduation. Now I have a routine that serves me well: Wake up and go to sleep at the same time every day, no caffeine, no sugar at night, nightlight on my monitors at night, listen to boring audiobooks with a sleep timer, don’t lay in bed watching TV.

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    20 hours ago

    Sleeping hygiene is a good point. No phone in bed.

    But also try to make it cozy

    Have a nice duvet cover, I like cotton. No synthetics. Change it more often.

    Temperature in your bed room should be lower, open your window before going to bed.

    Have good curtains. But not too dark. Whenever I have a window shutter and I close it completely, I just don’t wake up and sleep over 8-10 h.

    Here are my things I do when I can’t sleep

    If my feed are cold, wear socks, or cloth but don’t heat the room too much.

    Try to sleep in a different room (if you can). When I am just too active I move to my sofa for a change. It really helps me.

    Important question. Are you alone or is someone next to you. If your sleeping schedule or preferences don’t mix with your partners, try separate beds. Cuddling sounds cute until you cannot sleep because of a snoring person next to you. And don’t be angry when your partner prefers to be separate.

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      19 hours ago

      I follow all those ideas except the couch. When I can’t sleep I change the scene, I sit in my bed and start reading. Eventually I’m sleepy enough to lie down again.

      If I can’t sleep again I go back to reading. This is just to not associate lying down in bed and not sleeping. Reading in another room is probably best though.

  • thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    15 hours ago

    As someone who is disabled my go too is a nice comfortable bed, my service dog by me, a weighted blanket which never new how amazing it helps my sleep. And my CPAP machine.

    These help me sleep, oh also I have sleep as android help me track my sleeping patterns and play thunderstorms every night to drown out everything around me so my brain can relax

  • 【J】【u】【s】【t】【Z】@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    Close your eyes. It’s impossible to stay awake with your eyes closed. True fact. They’re hardwaired right to your brain eventually your brain is like “aight, I’ma head out.”