+/- | amour l’espérance (he/they)

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  • define these people. define these instances. etc etc

    what’s your point? anyone can do a screen shot and share it too.

    if you want to have a conversation about the content of my post, please keep it on topic : without authorised fetch and a domain blocked at the instance level, the content is pushed.

    if you have technical knowledge to add to this or can correct me about the protocol I’m glad to hear it. if not I’m not interested.




  • I came to the fediverse in 2017, so nothing to do with reddit or meta or twitter.

    The fact is here, we have a choice. So you do you.

    On mastodon I have an account on an instance that blocked meta and is using authorised fetch (so the proper way to block a domain) : great, my content won’t go there or on any other blocked domains : it’s my choice.

    I have another account on another instance that didn’t blocked meta : great, my content will be shared with threads users and I will be able to browse threads.

    Choice, isn’t it great?




  • I don’t think that it’s off topic at all, in the contrary. If you analyse the situation described by the OP, the issue is not the fact that our actions are transparents, the issue is due to the consequence of downvoting a post and how this action made another person feel and how they acted on this feeling.

    Downvoting is not a constructive tool and should be abolished. It’s not a matter of the users not using it the right way, it’s a matter of psychological behaviour.

    We should design tools that help us to bring the best in us, not the worst. We are not here on a commercial platform who need to hook us with dopamine shot, and trigger us on engaging by frustrating us. We need to build things differently. Federating servers is great but not enough.

    I think that an option to be able to remove the display of the downvote tool and downvote count should be available in the settings. I would like to abolish it all together but I’m not interested to impose this on other users, so bring me an opt out please.

    what do you think @ernest? let’s change this paradigm and build another better tool?


  • aroom@kbin.socialtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWhats your such opinion
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    7 months ago

    I totally understand your point of view and think that your perception is valid. If you try to analyse why you find them preachy and judgemental it could be interesting.

    For example would find them so annoying if you agree with them? Is it the discourse that annoys you or the person? Is it your belief system being challenged that annoys you or the facts that are being stated?

    It’s always intersting to understand why we feel that way when we are challenged, and veganism is one of a few topic that can create what we called in psychology reactance, an interesting topic.

    Veganism is really different than religion tho, cause it is totally backed by science (regarding food production, waste issue, C02 and sentientism) and a logic construct.


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    7 months ago

    they are great conversations about why people are so annoyed by vegans and most of the time it’s not because vegans are harassing or pushing their agenda, it’s more a question of how we perceive ourself when comparing ourself to others.

    it’s due to cognitive dissonance.