Like, are you ever about in public, hear that ding and think “ah yes, homosexuality.”

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    If I find out then I’ll 100% be making it my ringtone to see which of my friends/colleagues react

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    14 hours ago

    Unless grinder got a custom notification sound, saying something like “Im gonna prone bone til you gone” i would probably write it off as some message notification

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    No, I would have no idea. It’s a standard notification? You can’t choose the sound? If it was a ladies site I’d say “vibrate” would be the obvious choice, but for a gay men’s site, no idea.

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    No volume, vibrate, led, or push notifications. If you want my attention badly enough, call. And I will screen the call and text you back at my convenience. I will not be on a leash. Now excuse me while I doomscroll for 2 to 17 hours.

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    on grinder… still don’t know what the sound is. :-( Holy shit, Grindr is so far ahead of any hetero dating app.

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    Who keeps notifications on? Anything? I put my phone on silent back in 2012 and I’ve never looked back.

    Edit. Sorry, to clarify. I turn notification sounds off. Still get the actual pop up… Some not important ones get total silents but still pop a bubble so at some point I’ll look at it. For those things that need to be noticed i make sure they vibrate and pop up on my watch. Still not a sound to be heard.

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      Me. I work freelance. I can’t afford to miss an email.

      The trick is only to have important inbox notifications on and no notifications for any other apps. Then you don’t need to put your phone on silent.

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      This comes up every once in a while. Apparently there are a surprising number of people on Lemmy who are still commited to using audible notifications.

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    The only thing I think when I hear someone else’s notification is, why the fuck is it so loud and why the fuck aren’t they silencing it?

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    Does anyone have the sound on these days? My volume is set to 0 most of the time, I have no idea what any of the sounds are now.

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      Only older people from what I’ve seen. At least, whenever I hear a ping out in public, it’s always someone older

      So, to answer your question, no, not really

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      I turned on my volume the other night to make sure I heard my alarm, and forgot to turn it off. I learned a lot of notification sounds that day. Or would have if I’d paid attention beyond “Oh, a notification”

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    Im not even straight and I don’t know the sound, why would anyone who has no reason to use the app know it?

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            I love the reaction. “It seems like you are having a lovely weekend here in Malmö” 😂 Happy for him, but understand the embarrassment as well.

            I would not have recognized that sound before I heard it now.

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            Dude. Fuck the old ladies! I mean, not sexually…but, fuck them if they want to judge you for being gay.

            You’re going to buy some dvds, or some clothes, or whatever you came to the thrift store for. They’re going to droll on living their meaningless lives. And you’ll still be getting more cock than they will.

            This coming from a straight guy who just wants everyone to be happy being themselves. Unless that true self is a hateful prick who judges others for existing. Fuck those people. You wanna marry a gothic nun vampire hunter? Go for it. I won’t understand it, but I don’t have to. It’s not my life you’re affecting. And same for these old ladies. They can either accept you, or fuck off.