Light rays thru a small aperture can be close to perpendicular when they hit the imaging plane. So you can move the imagine plane forwards and backwards a bit, and the circle of confusion stays about the same size. That’s a deep depth of field.

Light rays thru a wide aperture hit the imaging plane at a shallow angle. So if you move the imaging plane even a little bit the circle of confusion changes size dramatically.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Depth_of_field_illustration.svg

Same Difference between a lamp, a flash light, and laser.

It removes scattered light when you make the light ingress smaller.