Light rays thru a small aperture can be close to perpendicular when they hit the imaging plane. So you can move the imagine plane forwards and backwards a bit, and the circle of confusion stays about the same size. That’s a deep depth of field.
Light rays thru a wide aperture hit the imaging plane at a shallow angle. So if you move the imaging plane even a little bit the circle of confusion changes size dramatically.
Light rays thru a small aperture can be close to perpendicular when they hit the imaging plane. So you can move the imagine plane forwards and backwards a bit, and the circle of confusion stays about the same size. That’s a deep depth of field.
Light rays thru a wide aperture hit the imaging plane at a shallow angle. So if you move the imaging plane even a little bit the circle of confusion changes size dramatically.
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