• GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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    you don't

    at least it was. my family had posted photos and tagged me in them. At that point I hadn’t had a FB for almost a decade. this was years ago now, but I doubt they changed it.

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    23 hours ago

    Unfortunately, I’m keeping mine to make a pipeline from there to actual content on Mastodon or BlueSky. But I basically put a URL in my bio and push a photo once a week.

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    21 hours ago

    If it wasn’t for Marketplace, I would be off Facebook entirely.

    But I am not on threads at all, and only get punted over to Instagram with reels that appear on my Facebook account.

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    Unfortunately it has been demonstrated through whitehat research that simply deleting your old account is relatively useless. They have shadow profiles of users based on probabilistic data. For example, say your spouse with her decades old account keeps making posts about what you ate on date night, your trip to Cabo, or worse yet she posts a bunch of pictures of her, you, and the kids. Facebook makes a shell profile based on this conception of “you” and begins aggregating all the info it can about this person.

    More over, every time an acquaintance of yours gives their FB app permissions to access their contacts (to suggest Friends or whatever) if your contact info is on the list, FB now has your real name, your email, your mobile phone number, etc. You never opted in, but it doesnt matter - other people are opting you into FB data collection all the time, unless you literally don’t tell anyone your real phone number or email address.

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    Is it good to know that there ís still person in this world doesn’t rely much more on social media even though that is the biggest mainstream in this world.

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    How to delete is not the problem. That’s the trivial part. In fact, you don’t even need to delete your account. Just stop using it and it’s practically the same effect.

    The problem is how to get your friends and acquintances out of there. Lots of things are there and only there. Like for instance, it’s my jujitsu club’s main place of information. If I quit FB, I will no longer know what’s happening there.

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      The only thing keeping my meta account alive is Marketplace. Unfortunately, it’s much busier than Craigslist in my area.

      Facebook has become a dirty flea market for me.

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        Yeah the world moved from Craigslist to marketplace before I did. I found out the hard way when nothing was selling.

        One thing I like about marketplace is you can view someone’s profile to see if they are an actual human that lives near you.

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        Marketplace needs to die, it’s got most of the downsides of craigslist except for making it super easy for prospective purchasers to spam “still available?” Ad nauseum

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        Same. I live on an island and the only way to sell anything is on two fb groups. Craigslist is there but half the time you get people on the big island and have to take a ferry to sell. I’m thinking of starting a small website/app, not sure it will take off though.

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          If you cant get people on craigslist, the most well known fixed rock of online classifieds…I don’t know that your app will take off. OfferUp and the other one also tried to knock out marketplace and failed.

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            Offerup, letgo, mercari, etsy, there’s a million online 3PMs. (3rd party marketplaces). Refine the idea or scrap it. This guys right.

    • some_designer_dude@lemmy.world
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      Put pressure on the group owners to pack it up and move the group elsewhere. Where the group goes, they’ll follow.

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      This is the problem I’ve run into. I wanted to stay as part of a social group I’m nominally in, but that group’s only presence is on Facebook. And the group admins don’t want to move somewhere else because a) it’s change, and b) there aren’t many other options as good at managing such groups.

      On a related topic, does anyone know of a good Federated alternative to Facebook. Or at least an alternative that’s less ad-riddled and more privacy-conscious)?

      I looked around online last night and all the articles out there suggested things like Reddit, LinkedIn, Instagram, and Twitter as Facebook alternatives, which are wrong on so many levels. I’m not that bothered about getting an alternative myself since I barely used FB anyway. But being my extended family’s tech support, I keep getting asked about what good alternatives are out there. I’m finding nothing, but I’m likely missing a good Federated option.

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      Also Facebook Groups for obscure things, Facebook Marketplace, and even a lot of local political organizations primarily use Instagram

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        i tried to avoid it and deny it forever but facebook marketplace has really destroyed craigslist. so lame

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    Supreme Commanders of a few nations have that proverbial red button to delete anything (customizable selection of what to delete, too). You just have to get in contact with one of them, call them for a cup of coffee. Ask them to rid you of that problem.

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    I only use it for messenger. And only then because it still has chat bubbles. There are many better messengers. But they don’t have chat bubbles that draw over other apps.

    I haven’t posted on FB in years.

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    I deleted my account back in 2013. One thing I didn’t really think about was that someone else could spin up an account and pretend to be you after you leave. When I found out that someone did this I don’t think I did anything about it, I just looked at the account, cringed, and closed the window and never went back.

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    You need to block all their domains/IP ranges too otherwise they’re still profiting from profiling you across apps and websites.