• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    If it’s known that you’ve approached many people,

    Unless you live in Buttfuck Montana, how would that be known?

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        6 months ago

        Yes, and if I have my headphones on at work, that means I’m focusing on something and you shouldn’t bother me unless it’s important. That’s what it means for most people. It certainly doesn’t mean “this is a good time to ask me out.”