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  • ted@sh.itjust.workstoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneGirl tips?
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    13 days ago

    Eyeliner pencil.

    Or pick and choose from this very absolute-beginner friendly make-up video

    The euphoria I got from my first application of foundation, eyeliner, and blush was marvelous.


    Second suggestion: jewelry. A cute bracelet, subtle necklace.

    If you haven’t gotten your ears pierced and want to, go to a piercing studio. If you have them pierced, dangly earrings!


    Skin care routine! Cleaning and moisturizing your face every night is very femme.


    Get your nails done. If you have a friend who can do it, do that. Or go to a nail salon, a basic polish will only be 20-40 bucks and you get to choose from hundreds of colours. Start with just your toes if you aren’t comfortable.


    Pluck your eyebrows. You just need an eyebrow tweezer. Makes you look cleaner even if you’re still largely presenting masc.


    Wear women’s underwear, boyshorts are a nice option if you’re not ready for a bikini cut.


    Start getting rid of extra boy clothes that you don’t foresee yourself wearing in the future. It can help relieve a burden you didn’t even know was there.


    Sorry, I’m 3 months in and these are some of the things that I’ve done. I’m full time, out at work and with family – I moved quickly I guess.













  • ted@sh.itjust.worksto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneincredible find rule
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    1 month ago

    I have encountered a lot of this mentality on Lemmy. Sometimes I go to engage, but it’s simply not worth it.

    You won’t be able to inform folks with these opinions in a content aggregator forum, it’s just not the place for learning (and 196 is much less so).

    Also is this OC in 196? Isn’t that sort of against the spirit of the community?