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  • I suspect that he has autism but I can’t tell him that because he’ll take it the wrong way and see it as putting him down.

    Nothing in your post suggest anything to do with autism.

    I don’t know if he has a hoarding disorder or not.

    This is probably it, or depression, or a mix of a bunch of different things. Or maybe even ADHD. ADHD paralysis is having decision fatigue so the person does not do anything.

    I really don’t have a solution for you. You seem to be a caring person that reached their limit.

    I don’t know your relationship with any of these people but what I would do is kick out the roommate and charge the friend. Having a place is the exchange for money. If his goal is to have his own place, he should figure that out. That shouldn’t be your concern. You aren’t their guardians.