• NegativeNull@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    My father dropped out of high school, got a job a HP as a line worker (manufacturing oscilloscopes), got married, had 6 kids, 3-4 cars (depending on needs), and a house to fit all those kids. This was in the late 70s-90s (when the last kid graduated high school). Mother didn’t work. We lived comfortably (not wealthy by any means).

    My wife and I have 4 degrees between us, both work full time, have a single kid. We live about as well as my parents did.

    • The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.worldOP
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      8 months ago

      The middle class dream! It absolutely feels like the bar to clear to be able to achieve this is significantly higher now.

      Unless you’re already wealthy, you have to pick one or more from the following:

      • delay starting a family until more secure
      • both parents work
      • multi-generational household
      • living farther from major cities
      • having fewer kids than you might otherwise