Well in my specific case I am looking for someone to have kids with which is a lot different than the other stuff you mentioned which are purely cosmetic. I know you can adopt etc but I’m a narcissist who wants to make miniature rabbers.
yeah, was going to ask the same thing - I think infertility is a great example of an “unexpected” thing that I wouldn’t think should count as a violation, at least not for hooking up. It’s another matter if a person really wants to reproduce and the partner lies or doesn’t disclose they are infertile and leads them along somehow, but that’s not a hookup situation. A hookup is not a suitable context for reproducing, let’s be honest.
Well in my specific case I am looking for someone to have kids with which is a lot different than the other stuff you mentioned which are purely cosmetic. I know you can adopt etc but I’m a narcissist who wants to make miniature rabbers.
would you feel “violated” if the woman you date looks totally normal, but is actually infertile?
yeah, was going to ask the same thing - I think infertility is a great example of an “unexpected” thing that I wouldn’t think should count as a violation, at least not for hooking up. It’s another matter if a person really wants to reproduce and the partner lies or doesn’t disclose they are infertile and leads them along somehow, but that’s not a hookup situation. A hookup is not a suitable context for reproducing, let’s be honest.