• imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works
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    17 hours ago

    That’s fair and I respect it, we need to have the courage to trust other people and I’m sure people have received much needed aid from that community.

    But at the same time we have to recognize when a system is vulnerable to abuse, and consider ways to prevent that abuse from happening, or at least limit it. Sometimes, people aren’t going to tell the truth, and sometimes they may not know how to help themselves. It’s very hard to recognize those scenarios when your only context is an anonymous username on an internet forum.

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      17 hours ago

      In that case, you simply just have to take the risk. A well-off person giving money to another well-off person pretending to be poor isn’t as harmful as a well-off person not giving money to a poor person because they think they are a well-off person pretending to be poor.

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        10 hours ago

        Giving money to a person pretending to be poor instead of a person who is actually poor is harmful. You only have a finite amount of money to give away and you would be wasting it.

        Very interesting way of rationalizing it though. B+ for mental gymnastics.