• Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      16 hours ago

      I disagree. There are abundant cis women and cis men who go to malls, schools, bars, and streets wearing clothes that they believe make themselves look sexy. If using someone’s sexually charged custom pronouns is considered participating in kink then I’d argue going outside wearing anything vaguely sexual like a crop top is also the same level of participating in kink and that is simply accepted by society.

      • Letstakealook@lemm.ee
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        14 hours ago

        Just existing or looking appealing to sexual partners is not kink nor limited to cis individuals. What an awful argument. This individual is expecting others to help with their personal sexual arousal and playing victim when they refuse to participate. They are a goddamn sex pest.

    • Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      16 hours ago

      Have to ask, what’s this kink?

      I’ll assume it’s not neopronouns, as that’s just pronouns? And tbh I do not know drag, so I hadon’t know if there is anything else you’re referring to?

          • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nzOP
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            10 hours ago

            Drag uses drag/dragself pronouns because drag is a dragon rider. Drag has been in relationships with many dragons, both platonic and romantic. Even when drag was single, being a dragon rider was still part of drag.

            “You can take the dog out of the fight but you can’t take the fight out of the dog” or something.