• Match!!@pawb.social
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    9 hours ago

    not having positive preferences to look for but instead having multiple dealbreakers suggests that all women are functionally the same to you except for the ones who you think are lower quality… that is to say, you are not meaningfully valuing other people

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      8 hours ago

      My preference is women not yet blessed with children, in good shape, and not whoring themselves out on dating apps like tinder.

      It’s actually really simple to use positive language!