• _‌_反いじめ戦隊@ani.social
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    I was shunned for “domineering conversations” or “intimidating ‘the [shunning]CX community.’” After I got third parties to review our interactions, the community that shunned me plainly felt threatened I was not only too eloquent in my diction, but my anti-intolerance stance too overbearing for their ambivalent tolerations.
    Did you review the mirror effect link?

    • Norah (pup/it/she)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 days ago

      This is Jordan Peterson levels of deflecting questions. Your comment was removed because it encouraged brigading onto another website. Nothing more, nothing less.
      I am aware of the concept of the mirror effect. That doesn’t mean it is relevant to this current conversation. Have you heard of this quote by Raylan Givens?

      “If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you’re the asshole.”

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        You’re confusing two different issues. I am aware the mods for this community rightfully eliminated my post to prevent harassment, which I would have preferred it be Directly messaged for me to correct. That, we agree upon, so I am thankful for the act.

        However, this same praxis without messaging the person first is why the other community that shunned me is in dire authoritarian praxis. I found the actions here similar, if not better, than what I experienced in the shunning community I mentioned at the removed comment. That community in question has nothing to do with /c/Trans_Memes.

        I am explaining why I have to live in woods, and live with like-minded folks. It’s not being misgendered that troubles me, but society rejecting my intellect.

        Regarding that NPD quote depends on a fact nice people exist, neutrals, and assholes. If you live in a society that wants to kill you for being trans, or in my case, too bright, am I the asshole for choosing to abstain?


        Edited the comment where I see the confusion laid.

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            7 days ago

            Same🤝

            EL13:

            • Mods here in Trans_Memes did a great job! I agree with the moderation!

            • Mods in the shunning community did an auth job, banned too many folks. Leninism auth praxis.

            • I must live in the woods ’cause I’m such a bright star, insecurities of the Leninists, assholes, and npds alike cause folks to shun me.