• Swarfega@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    Sorry. Reading what I asked, reads that I am questioning people with ADHD. My original intention was questioning myself. I’ve never considered myself to have ADHD (I’ve just never looked into it) but this is certainly a trait that I’ve suffered from from school onwards. From my school reports they always said I lacked concentration which was true and still is to this day. 30 years ago, when I was at school, ADHD wasn’t something even mentioned.

    I’m not questioning ADHD, my eldest son has been diagnosed with ADHD and ASD. He’s certainly different to his brother but not too different to standout to people in the street. I’ve had family members question his diagnosis which is annoying as they don’t see what we see on a day to day basis.

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      2 months ago

      I know you didn’t, which is why I didn’t sanction you :) It was just skirting close to Rule 1 due to the problems of written language, so I thought I’d mention it just to make sure ;)

      Also reminder that ADHD is generic. If your children have it, they typically got it from someone in your family ;)

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      2 months ago

      I’m 40 and just started medication for ADHD. When I was in school there were some kids diagnosed with it, but they were the kids bouncing off the wall. I was just told I was a daydreamer, lacked concentration, just needed to focus more because I had so much potential if I could do the work. Instead I just skated by as a B student largely on testing well, but not turning things in. That’s not to say you do or don’t have it, just don’t assume you don’t have it because no one ever mentioned it when you were young.