• LustyArgonian@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Codependency isn’t an excuse to assault someone.

    I don’t hurt my sisters. “Like a sister” - you attacked her. Not only could you be charged with a crime, she also could completely reasonably use legal lethal force against you in that scenario in many states. FYI most killers are known to their victims beforehand, so that you know her actually makes you more likely to kill her compared to a stranger.

    You just don’t want to let go of abusing others so you are making excuses.

    • Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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      2 days ago

      Hardly consider it codependency. Unless all close bonds are considered that. Which is why me doing it was not an issue but if someone else did yeah it would have been.

      Like if my mom cut a lock of my hair would I be annoyed and kick her in the shin? sure. I would demand a explaination but not go nuclear. Some person I barely know? Hell to pay.

      what’s important is the view the people involved have here. I doubt if I apologized today it would be accepted because no one involved view it as a problem.