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First Majestic Comet@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMEnglish · 1 year ago

Isogender: Why we aren't cis or trans [TW: Invalidation]

First Majestic Comet@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMEnglish · 1 year ago

Isogender@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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A community for all people who identify under the Isogender Umbrella.

Isogender is a gender Modality which refers to when someone does not identify as cisgender or transgender.

Examples of Isogender:

A bigender, or otherwise multigender, individual who doesn’t really feel transgender as a significant portion of their gender strongly resembles/is the same as their AGAB and isn’t dysphoric towards their gender.
A non-binary individual who doesn’t really feel transgender as their gender is strongly similar to their assigned gender as birth.
Someone who stops feeling gender incongruence sometimes or someone whose gender incongruence fluctuates in intensity.
An agender or otherwise genderless individual who does not feel like transgender describes them due to the fact that their gender does not exist.

(exerpt from the LGBTQIA Wiki)

Rules

Rule 1: Be Civil, do not troll or harass other users.

Rule 2: Keep things on topic, don’t post content that isn’t relevant to the community.

Rule 3: No Bigotry, do not spread or encourage homophobia, transphobia, enbyphobia, xenophobia, racism, etc. This community is a Safe space.

Rule 4: Do not invalidate other people, When a person states how they identify you need to respect it, don’t argue with them about how they are technically [different Identity] instead, it is hurtful and invalidating.

Rule 5: Lemmy.world accounts are forbidden from Posting or commenting here. If you comment here on with accounts from those instances they will be removed and the accounts banned. You may post and comment here using accounts from other instances. Bans apply retroactively but will be spaced out to avoid spamming the log.

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Blåhaj Lemmy

A general purpose lemmy instance for gender diverse folk and their allies.

Blåhaj Lemmy

Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

We have three alternative lemmy frontends

We have a public matrix channel for all Blahaj users at #blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

We also have a matrix channel for gender diverse folk and our allies! If you’re already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

If you’re new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

Community Guidelines

Blåhaj Lemmy is a space where everyone should feel able to participate safely, and to that end, our community is built on the guiding philosophies of empathy, inclusion and acceptance.

Empathy

We want our community members to be guided by compassion and empathy for others.

Examples of behaviour that are contrary to this philosophy are personal attacks, insults, doxing etc. If your comment is designed to hurt someone, this isn’t the space for it.

Inclusion and Acceptance

Embracing inclusion and acceptance means listening when people tell you who they are and what their needs are. It means not telling people that you know their experiences better than they do. It means not gatekeeping experiences of identities of others. It means no bigotry such as racism, sexism, anti LGBT commentary, ableism etc. It means doing your best to ensure that you don’t over-talk the voices of folk who don’t share your privileges.

Supporting Blåhaj Lemmy

After much hesitation, we have a Ko Fi to enable people to help with supporting some of the running costs associated with our instances.

Providing a safe space for our community is the goal, so please only consider donating if you are in a position to do so without any financial stress.

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Find out about our mascot Shonky (they/them) who appears on our site logo here.

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